Monday, October 12, 2009

if u dont know ..i want u to now get into me !

so i've been putting a website together for ova a month im workin on it tryin to keep up with updates n shit its not the fanciest thing out there but ppl say its hot

http://sassysohomo.weebly.com/ <= is the link click it n book mark it ...

imma keep this blog but the other one is def more in depth

once again get into me !

Saturday, October 3, 2009

CONFESSIONS

"u dont know what you got til its gone, u dont know how u feel until som1 moved on"

Not gonna ly thas how i feel right now so imma give yall something from the heart.

I think its completely fine to fall for a friend even a best friend. Yall alrdy have the concrete friendship and know each other truths and lies. But after you make it known there should be rules and boundaries. Make sure they are CLEAR as day n glow in the dark. And during which u decide to tell ur friend how u feel make sure they see and feel the love as well.

Along the lines of DATING ... if in the beginning of tryin to see if something works with a friend u need to be honest and let them kno whether or not u are talking to other ppl, if tha is not alrdy an established in ur rules and boundaries. If "ur doors" are not all closed before you decide to open another u need to either close those doors and lock them or just open all ur doors. I dont need for u to have cracked doors, tha leads to secrets(writing out loud). And if WE are FRIENDS we shouldn't have secrets. ABOVE EVERYTHING else we were friends 1st. RIGHT? riiiiiiight...

So imma say this for all of u who wanna go forth with a friend i encourage u if the feelings are mutual. Let it be known in the beginning if its just tha one person or ur talkin to more then 1 person as well so they do not get all wrapped up in u. Or else in the end one person for sure if not more will end up hurt. Friendships could be lost and u'll be sittin at home wondering WHAT IF?